During the initial months of her virtual relationship with a man who went by the name Frank Borg, Laura Kowal was inundated with declarations of love and spent countless hours on euphoric phone calls. However, as the second year rolled around, their interactions became systematic and transactional, with Frank guiding Kowal on how to establish fake businesses and bank accounts to facilitate money transfers.
"I think she got deeply involved in this scam, realized she was being duped, and when she attempted to break free from it, she got trapped in what these scams refer to as a 'money mule,'" shared Kowal's daughter, Kelly Gowe. "They ensnared her in it."
Laura Kowal's ordeal of being depleted of her savings and later coerced into aiding scammers located overseas in concealing and transferring funds — including creating new fictitious identities for them — represents a sinister development in the country's romance scam epidemic, as per law enforcement officials briefed by CBS News.
A comprehensive investigation conducted by CBS News over the course of a year uncovered that scammers have been increasingly successful in exploiting their emotional hold on victims by transforming them into unwitting accomplices, or "money mules."
This process of fraudsters manipulating victims into perpetuating their schemes has created a legal minefield for investigators. Often, prosecutors are left to decide how to charge people who have morphed from targets to accomplices — particularly when they have openly committed fraud or helped launder millions of dollars swindled from others.
The scam tactic has now become so widespread that federal agents are broadcasting warnings that urge people to think twice before helping someone they met online to move money.
"They're committing a crime"
James Barnacle, the head of the FBI's financial crimes section, told CBS News the FBI has developed psychological profiles of "money mules" to try to understand how to better deal with the problem. The challenge, he said, is that scammers have become better at gaining control over their victims.
"As the victim gives money, the asks continue. And we see an expansion of the ask," Barnacle said.
Increasingly, he said, that includes instructions to the victim to help the scammers move money. Leaning on the trust they've established, the scammers wire money they've stolen from one victim into another victim's new bank account.
"They think it's business proceeds for their lover," Barnacle explained.
Scammers then instruct the victim to wire that money internationally, withdraw it in cash and have couriers pick it up, or transfer it into a cryptocurrency.
"They're committing a crime at that point," he said. "They've committed bank fraud."
The chains of transactions also create a new point of leverage that scammers can lord over their victims to coerce them into continuing to help — they are now criminals, too.
"Could the bad guy use that as a hook?" Barnacle said, "Absolutely. And they do."
Victim or criminal?
Retired U.S. Postal Inspector Natalie Reda investigated many romance schemes where she says the victims fell so hard for their scammers, they "check their reasoning at the door."
The dynamics are complicated for law enforcement, she said. On the one hand, they are dealing with a vulnerable person who has been manipulated by a sophisticated actor. On the other hand, that person is also committing crimes that may victimize others.
Reda said it's a challenge to know how best to approach the "money mule" — as a victim or criminal. She said she always took a gradual approach, starting with a warning: "Stop doing this. You're committing a crime."
Reda said she moves slowly, telling them, "We're not gonna do anything now, but if we have to come back, you know, you're looking at criminal charges." Often, she said, "they'll keep doing it."
Her daughter found the trail of her mother's activities and realized she had created fake dating profiles on behalf of Frank Borg, opened bank accounts for him, and even bought a burner phone to communicate. She believes Kowal was coerced, even threatened into working for the scammers.
"It just really saddens me that it got to that point that ultimately she was participating in illegal behaviors," Gowe said. "I believe that she was doing that, though, because she felt like she had to. There was no other choice. That she was under an order to have to participate with what the scammers were asking of her."
A "dumb-ass scheme"
One of Kowal's initial payments for $75,000 made at "Frank's" request was actually received by three people living in the Chicago suburbs, according to law enforcement. Authorities have indicted two of the men, both Nigerian nationals, Samuel Aniukwu and Anthony Ibekie, and an American woman named Jennifer Gosha whom they allege was helping the men to set up bank accounts and move money.
The criminal complaints against the three say undercover agents made secret recordings that show their involvement in romance-fraud and a range of other schemes. Investigators allege the trio's scams resulted in at least $750,000 in losses for victims.
Aniukwu pleaded guilty to wire fraud and money laundering in July 2023 and has agreed to cooperate with prosecutors as part of his plea deal. He faces a maximum sentence of 30 years in prison, but a sentencing date has not yet been set. Meanwhile, Gosha and Ibekie, both of whom have pleaded not guilty, are scheduled to face trial in June.
In January, Gosha, a U.S. post office employee and Iraqi war veteran, appeared in court intending to enter her own guilty plea. She told the court she suffered from post-traumatic stress from her military service. As the judge advised her that a guilty plea would make her a felon and compromise her post office pension, she backed out of the deal.
In an interview with CBS News, Gosha explained that she had been dating Ibekie, whom she thought was a Nigerian doctor, and had plans for them to build a life together. As they grew closer, she said Ibekie began asking her to do things for him.
"You know, like things that people in relationships do," she said. "Can you pick up my dry cleaning? Can you order this thing from Macy's? Can you stop by and grab it? My car is in the shop: Can you pick me up? Stuff like that," Gosha said.
Over time, the requests became more involved, she said. But she said she continued to believe him, "because when I met him he drove a Mercedes truck, he said he was a doctor, he had on the Rolex, he was dressed nice, his house was phenomenal."
When she was arrested on charges of conspiring with Ibekie, she said she felt she had been trapped — a victim of a different sort. "If I'm someone who's 'complicit' in it, why am I left here not with 50 cents?" Gosha told CBS News.
If convicted, she faces a potential 30-year sentence. Gosha described feeling helpless to counter the weight of government charges against her.
"I served in the Iraqi War, I raised my children, I went to school. I am not someone who decides after all I've accomplished in my life, 'Now I'm gonna become a criminal mastermind?'" Gosha said during an interview on the front steps of her modest garden apartment in Chicago. "If I'm gonna come up with a scheme, it's not gonna be this dumb-ass scheme."
Reflections on Involvement in Financial Scams
Reflecting on the consequences of her boyfriend's involvement in financial scams, Gosha admitted to pondering about the individuals whose money flowed through his accounts and the havoc it wreaked on their lives. Despite this, she asserts, "I didn't 'play a part in it' knowingly."
Local Law Enforcement Facing Challenges
Dealing with the sheer volume and intricacy of these scams poses a significant challenge for local police forces. Many officers expressed frustration to CBS News regarding the limited options available to tackle the continuous influx of complaints they receive, often from the adult children of victims who have fallen prey to scammers.
Mark Solomon, a former police officer who leads the International Association of Financial Crime Investigators, highlighted instances where victims were turned away by law enforcement. This could be due to a lack of empathy towards individuals willingly parting with their money or the difficulty in pursuing crimes that originate in distant locations around the world.
David Parrish, the sheriff in Lewis County, Missouri, where one victim's body was discovered, suggested that the rate at which scams are evolving might be surpassing law enforcement's capacity to effectively intervene.
Online romance scams are a constant challenge, plaguing us on a bi-weekly basis," Parrish lamented. "We're always playing catch-up, always one step behind. Always."
Authorities dedicated to fighting scammers expressed their difficulty in not empathizing with victims who have suffered significant losses.
"It all seems to circle back to the same root cause: hope. It's the promise of love, someone caring for them," shared Reda, the retired postal inspector. "It's truly heartbreaking. It's a tough sight to witness."
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